如丧考妣rú sàng kǎo bǐ

考妣：父母。好像死了父母一样。形容悲伤和着急(贬义)

例二十有八载，帝乃殂落，百姓如丧考妣，三载，四海遏密八音。——《书·舜典》

英look as if one had lost one's parents—look utterly wretched;